Feeling Abandoned!!
We all have been through phases were we all have felt abandoned, rejected or unloved. It’s the strongest of all the wounds we tend to feel; recollecting the exact situations we have been through, and the pain can be felt the exact same even after ages. Wondering on the same topic I realised that there are layers and layers to this feeling. We tend to write our victim stories and build our self image around the feeling of abandonment. We don’t even realise how and when these wounds become our identity we start defining ourselves with the stories we carry of our hurt, pain, the rejection we felt while seeking for acceptance. Initially the healing starts with the realisation that comes after someone made us feel abandoned, at times by disrespecting us or rejecting us. Working on the wound of rejection starts when we learn to accept the feeling rather than rationalising with it. This is when we learn about our stories the stories we have lived for so many years. Over the years we h